By Brenda Flanagan
Correspondent
Twenty-two-year-old Tyler Loftus looked lost at his arraignment in Superior Court. Diagnosed autistic, bipolar, with the mind of a 5-year-old, Tyler’s charged with making terroristic threats and unlawful possession of a weapon — a three-inch pocketknife.
When the judge asked if he had received a copy of the charges against him, Tyler said, “I don’t know sir.”
His mom, Rita O’Grady, spoke for her bewildered son.
“He’s had no day programs or psychiatric supports,” she said.
How’d he end up here? Let’s rewind: 18 months ago, Tyler lived at the Woods School in Pennsylvania, where for the prior seven years, he’d received psychiatric therapy along with other developmentally disabled patients. But the Return Home New Jersey program moved Tyler to a group home in rural Franklin Township where the staff could not control him and were not allowed to use restraints.
“A routine day is him giving them a hard time. Usually results in a 911 call. The state police respond, take him to the emergency room for an evaluation. This happens at least five times a week and sometimes it happens more than once in a day,” said O’Grady.
She says the local hospital can’t keep him.
“There was a case manager there named Mike who said, ‘We’re not Tyler’s staff. We can’t be his staff every day,’” O’Grady said.
So Tyler again goes back to the group home. For a year and a half, his mother says, she’s begged the state DDD — the Division of Developmental Disabilities — to find a place that offers psychiatric treatment and security.
“They just keep telling me that we’re investigating a possible program,” she said. “Meeting after meeting after meeting I hear the same thing but there’s never any action on their part.”
The DDD said it could not comment. Tyler’s mom says psychiatric reports note her son routinely threatens to “…hurt or kill those around him…” when he’s stressed and also has “…an interest in knives and weapons.” She says he hasn’t hurt anyone yet, but this week, police charged him with threatening a roommate.
“By holding a three-inch pocketknife in an open position above his head and threatening to slash his throat if he did not back off,” relayed Judge Stephen Rubin.
Tyler’s one of 150 developmentally disabled clients already brought back via the Return Home New Jersey program with hundreds more scheduled to return to what their families fear are uncertain circumstances. They lobbied and got a bill passed to put a moratorium on Return Home New Jersey, but Gov. Chris Christie vetoed it. Today in court, they offered moral support, and the judge continued the case.
“Jail is not an option, but that’s what’s happening because we are not getting the supports that we need,” said O’Grady.
By the judge’s order, Tyler Loftus will be spending the next few weeks in a state-run psychiatric hospital where he will be evaluated and hopefully officials will figure out what to do with him.
The legislature the LT Governor and the Governor must remove the both heads of DDD and Health and Human Services immediately. Orange should not be the new puzzle piece!
this is just sickening…these individuals and their families need the help that they were promised. The state of NJ has bitten off more than they can chew and now they have a problem. Why was Bring Home NJ initiated? Is it because of cost? I wonder how much of the taxpayer’s hard earned money was shelled out because of this young man’s in 911 calls alone? IMHO, DDD just turned a blind eye to the situation when they could have admitted that this program is not for every developmentally challenged person outside the state’s borders! Are these persons thoroughly evaluated before being moved? I highly doubt it. I have had experience with DDD in the past (through family) and they have been nothing but a problem. Can’t contact people…can’t get action, can’t get actions. Parents are forced to do the work themselves and many times they have no idea what it is that they should be doing to secure help for their challenged children!!! It looks to me like a mass moving to save $ but now it is backfiring and as more incidents like this arise…the cost of caring for these troubled persons will far outweigh the savings of moving them “home.”
Tyler functions on a kindergarden or 1st grade level. He was moved to an ARC group home that I actually, with drew consent to move him to. I knew it would be a bad move because of the agressive antagnnizing room mates that lived there. DDD over rode my decision and moved him there any way, and Tyler was being severely aggressed by room mates, and left. was stopped by police and had a little pen knife (it was dark, he was afraid)…..He has gone 1.5 years with out any mental health services that were supposed to be arrainged by DDD. He was in the wrong type of residential placement that had not been able to handle him for a very long time. The ARC asked DDD to move him to a more apporpritae facility at least 10 months prior. DDD took no action and has completely ignored my plea’s and the ARC’s plea’s for psych help for Tyler. With out the psych counseling he should have been getting, he regressed sio significantly. DDD should be ashamed of themselves. Jail is not an option for our Autistic kids, when DDD wont provide the services they need! Thank you Rocco A. Mazza. Jack Chickerelli Asm 16th district came to the arraignment, as did about 20 Autism Advocates. The judge wants to move him to Trenton psych hospital where with hardened criminal offenders with mental illness. That is not a place for a developmentally challenged young man who functions on a kindergarden level with autism! Tyler does very well in the right environment. The ARC was not the proper place for Tyler….When he was at Trinitas last week, they had no issues with him. He was a model patient, and they said he needs out patient mental health care and a more structured facility with a psych focus. ****I FOUND THAT FACILITY, AND HE WAS SET TO INTERVIEW THERE NEXT WEEK. THEY HAVE A BED FOR HIM…….CAPITAL CARE…..I DESPERATELY NEED HELP. DDD WAS TOLD TO BE AT THE ARAIGNMENT, AND DID NOT EVEN BOTHER TO SHOW UP. < This is an egregious crime to an autism person….tossing him into the community and then denying him the proper residential programming and mental health services that were a condition of his Wood's (RHNJ discharge plan)…
I have been begging the Division of Developmental Disabilities, along with the ARC to get him in a proper residential program. I went as far as draffed a law suit last week and hired an attorney to sue the Division of Developmental Disabilities. The crisis has been at this level for about a year now. He keeps regressing, and regressing behaviorally. He was set to interview in “the right placement” next week (Thursday)….there is a bed for him, and they find him and his behaviors appropriate for their programming. But, he couldnt hold on. There iscurrently 1 hospital allocated in the state that will take an autistic behaviorally challenged person (Trinitas, Elizabeth, NJ) …No other hospital in the state will allow developmentally challenged folks on their units…..Trinitas only has 10 beds….so when deemed appropriate for admission, the Developmentally disabled folks wait 1-2 weeks in the ER holding area of the community hospitals. Parents of the autistic folks know this routine very well. Regular people in the community, simply dont understand the barriers to obtaining necessary care that exist. We can’t keep closing the Developmental Centers and returning adults from other centers to put them in a community that is simply not ready , or willing to manage their care. The Division of Developmental Disabilities has been our worst nightmare. I am involved in my 3rd legal battle with them (I funded all 3) to get proper services for my son. What is wrong with a system that is supposed to help people with disabilities, that wont, and needs to be sued to do so? Let alone 3 times in his life?
Sending you strength Tyler’s Mom! This must be a Nightmare for you and your son. Trenton is not a safe place for him and I understand your desperation. Autism is not a disability that can be “just seen”…would you jail a 5
year old child, your 5 year old child? Think! No way. That is what happened
here. Nightmare for this young man and his mother. Christie is so near sighted in his understanding of
people with Autism, mental illness and disabilities or frankly just does
not care! Let the young man go back to the program in PA where he was
safe, had people there trained and educated to care for him or to the facility in NJ his mother found/arranged! The State has known about 1 in 26 boys in NJ having Autism for a long time…plenty of
time to learn & plan BUT here we are!?!?! He may be 22 in years but not in “REAL” age, he is a 5 year old in a 22 year old body who was scared plus has Autism and is Bipolar. Again, who would jail a 5 year old child? Would the Governor himself jailed his 5 year old? No, he would not. What about our State Senators? @CoryBooker #CoryBooker and @BobMenendez #BobMenendez Where are they? Can the representatives Tyler’s Mom thanks in the post for showing up to the court appearance from the 16th District reach out to our NJ Senators for help?!?!
I have been in touch with a few Assembly members, and one came out for the arraignment. Thank you for well wishes…. I created a facebook page, save Tyler Jail is not an option for autism if you are interested. I have been trying to get legislation in place for the autism coming down the pike……that will take a back burner until I can stabilize Tyler.
Geoff I would like to see the judge supoena DDD Jill Mazontis-Insanti to respond in court as to why the Division has neglected providing a proper Residential program/mental health services as they continued to promise in meetings, and in all of their own notes. Even after the ARC asked them to replace Tyler back in March 2014, as they admitted in a meeting that they couldnt meet Tyler’s needs….Why? I found a bed for him at Capitol care in about 2 phone calls…..They have 6 months and no residential alternatives? They had 1.5 years, and not a program for mental health/behaviral health in place? What are they doing for their clients, besides causing bigger headaches and barriers to independant community living? Doenst make sence. We need accountability, for sure!
We desperately need to send a message to the Superior Court that sending this low functioning Autistic man to Trenton Psychiatric Facility (a place that houses criminal offenders murders and sex offenders) is not an option. I have been begging DDD (The division of Developmental Disabilities) for the past 1.5 years to get Tyler in a psych appropriate group home and day program. The Hunterdon County ARC couldnt handle him. Even they asked DDD to replace Tyler back in March 2014. DDD has been so negligent in providing the necessary mental health services and residential supports for so long. They were asked to come to court. DDD did not even show up for Tyler’s Arraignment. I need help convincing the judge not to send this young man to Trenton Psychiatric Hospital, but to call DDD into court to force the PROPER residential home and mental health supports he needs for his dual diagnosis. He has regressed so severely in the past 1.5 years, behaviorally. He was very stable when put in the community March 2013, and the regression has been so severe……he is now in jail……Hunterdon County Court House Flemington, NJ Also….The DDD case manager is Jill Mazonis-Insanti…
I liked & shared https://www.facebook.com/pages/Free-TylerJail-is-not-an-option-for-Autism-Services/368493976634601 hoping to grab the attention of NJ Senators Cory Booker & Bob Menendez and any one else in any political party who can who can help! I hope Tyler is safe and you can remain strong…
I have been sharing and someone suggested a petition on change.org…I know this all must be overwhelming are you planning on doing so?
Jesus, Mary and Joseph, the ableism burns.
Autistic people “regress” or progress for -reasons-. For Mr. Loftus to do something like this, it means something is very wrong. It means that he is not getting a need met. It means someone is mistreating him (not accusing the parent; more likely staff at the group home). Mr. Loftus needs therapy, not jail, not judgment.
Though, can I ask, as an autistic person, can we PLEASE stop using the “mind of a five year old” and functioning level rhetoric? It’s offensive, and it’s also inaccurate. I’m autistic, and while we might need more support or be developmentally delayed for our ages, we are not five years old, or ten, or however. We are our age, and we need to be talked to like adults, not children. I don’t mean deliberately talking over someone’s head – but not infantilizing, not patronizing.
Functioning levels are also not static, and labeling them is harmful. If you are labeled “high functioning”, you don’t get any help, because you’re presumed not to need it. If you’re labeled “low functioning”, you are never given tools or helped to raise beyond that label. And for that matter, i am usually considered “high functioning” – but I have days where I can’t speak, where I am too overloaded to do anything but curl up and cry. Am I still “high functioning” then?
That said, I would petition, and I would also get the word out. Autism advocates can help – I would try and contact the Autistic Self Advocacy Network, as they are one of the pre-eminent autism advocacy groups. Do NOT bother contacting Autism Speaks!
Ma’am, I also agree with the commenter who recommended Autistic Self Advocacy Network … they do good for us unlike many other organizations. They have a legal dept and may be able to step in. I hope it isn’t rude to say I will go to temple and pray for you.
I created a facebook page. Hoping to get the state’s attention!
Thank you ….all prayers are always welcome.
https://www.facebook.com/pages/Free-TylerJail-is-not-an-option-for-Autism-Services/368493976634601 I started a facebook page…
Sorry that the “mind of a 5 year old” was offensive. The reporter was doing her best to show the public that he has significant intellectual disabilites. His educational/medical records indicate his educational level of functioning. I think she was just trying to make a point. He doesnt understand money, he cant add, subtract, he is mostly illiterate. He can read some words, but not more then a kindergardner can read.
While I understand that Autism, itself can have disabling features that you mentioned when you cant speak or curl up and cry (and I am so sorry about that) …He cant care for himself. He has brain damage, in addition to the autism. He had encephalopathy as a 3 year old. There are some more compounding factors added on to his situation, and a mental health diagnosis, too. >
As his Mom, I wanted to admire your courage in speaking here today on this topic. Thank you so much. If you are on facebook….like the page I created!
What a shame that Autism Speaks doesnt do any advocacy for the Autistic population? Makes e wonder why they are the “Go-To” charity, and offer folks the least amount of help? I have heard that over and over, for years. I did already contact them, and I an *hoping* that they can lend some help, or support…or get the word out…at the very least!
https://www.facebook.com/pages/Free-TylerJail-is-not-an-option-for-Autism-Services/368493976634601
I am a mother of a 21 year old son who has Autism like Tyler. Many people with Autism are not like you Kyu. They could not even write the post you just made. As you know Autism is a spectrum. Some people with Autism actually do relate to the world in a way a 5 year old or a 4 year old (my son) would in regard to their educational development, socialization, interaction with others, trusting of strangers, tantrums, meltdowns, tv talking, living in cartoons and movies instead of reality to cope in this world etc. all while having Autism for a variety of reasons. Some people on the spectrum have advanced abilities and some do not, some can talk and others cannot communicate at all, others have severe behaviors in part because of an inability to communicate, depression etc. There are people without Autism even who relate to the world on a 5 year old functioning level for other reasons.
This is an emergency situation, saying “mind of a five year old” is the
quickest and the most relate-able way to explain to the “general public”
that even though a person “Looks typical” and is in a 22 year old body
he is not a typical adult and it is totally inappropriate to put him in
jail or a Psychiatric Hospital which houses criminal offenders. Saying Tyler has Autism does not highlight the fact that this is such an emergency as the general public has been bombarded with images of what appears to me lately of only higher functioning people with Autism. They are thinking Sheldon from
the Big Bang Theory is in jail. So as a person with Autism try not to be
offended, as they, the reporter, parents like myself and Tyler’s mother are just trying to make it clear to the general public how urgent this is to
the general public in a way they can easily understand, see the urgency so they help. And of course if anyone tries to place an inappropriate age level on you, you should be offended and voice your opinion, like you did here!
Sending you and Tyler LOVE and support.
Praying for you and your son! Thank you for fighting for him and never giving up even though it would have been easier to at times. Praying for his safety and for strength and wisdom for you, as well as favor with every official who reads this and you come in contact with.
Tyler is bearly literate…..few words he can spell. He doesnt understand grammar, punctuation. can not read/ can write some, but it reads and sounds like a kindergarden child wrote it. Thank goodness the intake nurse at the jail recognized his very significant intellectual defecit. They are holding him in medical, away from the general population. I never mean to offend others with autism, when I advocate, never, ever my intention (believe me). I am trying to make people understand. I am trying to get desperately needed services in the communities. I spoke last week in Trenton on the Stephen Kimnios bill, which criminializes those caretakers who abuse ID/ASD folks in group homes or Developmental centers. I have been trying to get a minimum standard certificate (education) established for those entry level persons who work with ASD folks. I am trying to bring 2 worlds together …..I do this level of advocatism, every day. However, this day……I need to fight the battle of my life, for my son, who is in a place he shouldnt be because a system failed him terribly (DDD).
Thank you so much…….
tylersmom, please go to Douglas Acres for Severely Autistic Adults on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/DouglasAcresIncForTheSeverelyAutistic?ref=bookmarks because someone there has asked about how to help you. We’d like to help you.
Geoff, my husband worked with you at Cure Autism Now.
I’m at https://www.facebook.com/liane.krajewski
Tyler’s mom, I have a question of where did he get possession of a pocket knifes? Where was his caretaker when he is suppose to be watched as much as possibles? I am a mom of a autistic adult and is currently 30 years old with a brain function mentally of a two year old. I do know how you feel about the services offered I.NJ. We moved in 1996 from middles ex county and there were no services provided for my son. He went to lake view school because our school system could not handle his disabilities. He was at least in JFK infant stimulation program at age 3 to 4. Then transferred to lake view school. It is a real shame that this young man hasslipped thru the cracks of society and politicians turned thir head the other way instead of looking at this problem straight forward. this is happening all of the United States but NJ is pretty bad when you have a handicapped (physically, intellectually impaired. As for the parent who stated they were offended please understand maybe your child is just autism but my son is total care and yes his brain capacity is a two year forever. I have accepted that and do the best I can’t for my child. He was not to live passed 9but as you see here he is 30 years old.
I am his full time care taker as his adted dad is too. My insurance would not help pay for his medical supplies like diapers because it is not a necessity to you or others but to these children it is and even today. It cost about 5k for medical supplies. there were no other programs here in this state especially in middles ex county. I have a niece who is wheelchair bound with medical injury from a surgery and she had to ride on a bus everyday for 2 hrs to get to her school. WHY? Not cost effective, dangerous on roads, two long of travel each day twice daily. NJ has money and should start talking and listening to reals rents who advocate to the best of THIER ability to give their child a life. they need to try sitting in a wheelchair for a day, blind folded on eyes and have someone escort them around the state house so they don’t get hurt but do everything on their own and realize that funds need to be there for these children at young age so that when their older they will have the training already.
Teach them life skills with THIER education not just put in a room in special education classes where they are bullied for being different. Teach THIER peers that everyone is different by color, race, hair, eyes, mental capabilities, develmental capability, and more.
This mom is at the end of her rope appealing to everyone that will listen so it took this incident to have them hear her cries for help!
You put children away and forget about them in institutions and here we have programs in FL where children our in THIER own homes and group homes. Yes we need to tell the political in high powers that you put in office to understand that a child like this doesn’t belong in Trenton State Hospital. He belongs in a home that can provide him his needs not with sexual predators or criminals. Yes he was crying for help and in the other hand defending himself against his roommate from what I have read. He protecting his space …my son does that and doesn’t understand why he is doing it, it’s just instincts.
STILL QUESTION IS WHERE DID HE GET THE POCKET KNIFE IN THE FIRST PLACE? Who legally owned it and how did it get in the group home in the first place?
This is a very sad and unfortunate case but maybe it’s a good thing it happened to bring to light this new wave epidemic of dually diagnosis individuals who’s mental psychosis overrides their developmental disability. NJ spends more money to send these individuals out of state for care instead of funding programs to open up and or supporting the few that are open right now. Now I don’t agree with what institutions have done to this vulnerable population in the past, but I do believe that legislatures need to sit down and reconsider closing certain institutions, developmental centers, behavioral group homes that can restrain, psych hospitals, etc. What they want to do is stick these individuals in group homes where staff are underpaid, and not properly trained to take care of them all because they don’t want to pay the doctors and nurses to take care of them and because they have a dual diagnosis, they get into these places because of the developmental aspect of their disability, totally repressing their serious mental disability and they have no idea how to care for these individuals! There are just some individuals who cannot be integrated into the community because they are a danger to themselves and to society and need constant supervision by professionals. This may be hard for family members to accept about their loved ones but if they can’t control them and request for help/intervention what is society to do? Should we let them roam our streets without giving them the proper care they need and they end up really hurting someone?Certain agencies are not allowed to restrain and cannot force an individual to take their much needed medications. It goes much deeper though as there is no medication in the world that can control someones behavior! I believe there are case workers who are unfamiliar with this new wave of dually diagnosed individuals and have nowhere to properly place them if the places do not exist or slim to none! So what will happen in the future if these agencies close down by 2017? Jail? Homelessness? Maybe we should put them on Christie’s door step so he can figure out where to place them. Legislatures need to really sit down and consider the pros and cons of this very serious epidemic.
If you have staff who are not properly trained to take care of an individual like this who is clearly violent! How can you blame staff? They cannot force an individual to go to therapy or take meds if they don’t want to unless trained professionals take over! Until we find another term that’s “Not offensive” High functioning and low functioning is the only medical term we have to go by to determine the level of care an individual needs. High functioning doesn’t necessarily mean that individual gets less care. Soon we are going to say intellectually and developmentally delayed/disabled is offensive too! I don’t think you should take it so hard, It’s an ongoing process/struggle.
Praying for you and Tyler. Judge Rubin should not be sending this poor kid into harms way!! He will simply learn more bad behaviors. OMG!! This is morally obsurd!! DDD needs to provide him with the individualized care he is entitled to, to be safe and free from harm or pay non par provider rates in PA until NJ figures this out!! He’s going to be hurt!!! Than what???!!!
Since Tyler was doing so well in the Wood School in Pennsylvania, what can be done to get Tyler back there? Why does Tyler have to come back to NJ? Are you free to determine where Tyler is to be treated? Since NJ does not provide what is needed in Tyler’s case, Is moving to Pennsylvania an option? Just another reason NJ is not a family- friendly state. I will keep Tyler and Mom in my prayers everyday. This is just cruel and inhumane.
Joanna with out divuldging case info (in which I am)…He had a pen knife..small thing that he had bought over 2 years ago (according to what he told me)…He bought it when he lived out of state. ARC staff were supposed to be doing a thorough sweep of his room 3x a week. It is in his care plan…..It has been for years…… He told me he kept it in his top drawer….and walking alone at night….was afraid (rural Hunterdon…. no street lights….he was terrified)
The issue mainly lies with the incompetence of The Division of Developmental Disabilities(DDD). Tyler was returned home from NJ from a comprehensive behavioral Health Autism program in PA. He was part of a money saving idea the state of NJ had to reduce the care costs of the DDD population. He has mental illness on top of the Autism. He always has had that. When DDD brought him back to NJ 1.5 years ago (March of 2013) they placed him in a non behavioral health home (ARC) . They were supposed to provide intensive psychiatric supports, and never, ever did. He has mental illness….and wasnt getting any …none….zip, zilch, zero, behavioral health services/programs/counseling….. The ARC was not able to handle him, and due to their own “hands off caring” policy, they had to call 911 every time he had behavior they could not manage. It went from occasional 911 calls to daily, even 2x a day. The ARC called DDD daily to inform, and asked that Tyler be sent to a different (behavior program) in March 2014 and again in July 2014. DDD ignored their requests and my plea’s for help in getting him in an appropriate residential program, with the right mental health supports!
3 weeks before the arrest, I had Hinkle Fingles attorney draft law suit to force DDD to send out Tyler’s referral to other agencies. They sent it to 1 agency. The day he was arrested and the ARC formerly evicted him, DDD sent the mass referral out (called an eblast)…….It took the arrest and him put in jail to motivate the fine folks at the state’s DDD office! This ordeal has been out of control for the past 1.5 years.
You can not expcet someone with severe mental health issues, autism, and intellectual disabilities to do better with out Mental Health supports when they are coming from an inpatient residential behavioral health program that they lived in for 7 years…. He regressed so severely since the ARC took over care! But, in their defense…they are NOT a behavioral health program, and more severe cases are way out of their realm. DDD should have listened to the 2 requests the ARC formerlly made, and the 1000 requests I made to replace him in a program that can handle his behavior……But our requests for service….fell on deaf ears, and were completely ignored.
.Rewind>>>>3-4 weeks….we opened a law suit with DDD to get him replaced in a behavior home…. He had been in a non behavior agency (ARC) for 1.5 years, and they couldnt manage him. The ARC told DDD in 3/2014, and again in 7/2014, that they couldnt handle him and DDD needed to move him. DDD never, ever so much as …made a referral….(not until the day he was arrested)….He was promised a psych day program when he moved back…..They never were able to even get him that. He is dually diagnosed, and was not getting any services….the blame for this falls SOLELY on DDD and their lack of services or concern for a client that they are responsible for caring for…..He is considered “incapacitated” (certified by 2 doctors) . In the certification, it states that he does not have the capacity to understand any court preceedings. The mental health certification was done in 2010 it also states that his mental condition is irreversible, and will be a life long issue ….We addressed this ….WAY BEFORE this incident…..wayyyy before…..I am not exactly sure what the justification is for him being in jail. The judge himself actually wanted to ROR Tyler….but DDD did not show up for the arraignment, they still have not called me, the parent (I called them the day it happened and left them a message).The court made mention of Respite services for Tyler at the Hunterdon Developmental Center instead of jail, but DDD wont hear of it, not at all. Governor Christi has a stop order on all persons going in to the expensive facilities…..Since there is no where for Tyler to go…..Their answer is…..jail….Jail is the autism services that the state of NJ Division of Developmental Disabilities is going to provide for my son……I find this…..SHAMEFUL!
I lived in PA when my son was 1st diagnosed ASD and the services were instantaneous and plentiful. Wouldn’t NJ be more helpful with an array of wrap around services if you chose to keep him home instead of in a group home?
FOLLOW UP??? Hello?
AS OF YESTERDAY (MONDAY 10/6) It has gotten worse. DDD put him in another group home and within hours he was rearrested because he refused to stay in the group home. He wound up in the Plainfield jail…YES, jail again. What about the past experiences did not warn that this would happen again? How much $ was forked out by taxpayers for this last episode…this last cry for help? They should have left him where he was thriving in the PA developmental center instead of bringing him back to a state that could care less about the individuals who mostly need help. He is a natural born citizen and yet illegals get more services than him. DISGUSTING!
Please stop with the “not like my child.” I understand autism better than neurotypical people simply because I am autistic and you are not.
Bullshit it doesn’t mean that we get less care. I’m pigeonholed as “high functioning” and was refused help by vocational rehab, I was told to “just deal” when looking for meds to help my comorbidities, and so on. Unless you’re one of us, you really don’t get to talk about how functioning labels don’t hurt us. They do. You are ignorant.